After watching Paris is Burning in this class, I was able to take on a new perspective about gender roles and how they plan out in each individual’s life. Rachael brought up something I have never thought about before, the overlooked ridiculousness of gender themes parties. We all have seen one of these gender reveal videos on Facebook that is adorable, but reduces the babies entire identity down to a single color (blue or pink, shocker). This made me think more about the roles gender plays in my own life and how it shouldn’t be accepted to reduce my identity down to just my gender from birth. This idea reminded me of a video from BuzzFeed that I watched last semester. This video was titled Childhood Gender Roles in Adult Life. Simply from the title it is obvious what this video consisted of, a lot of pink, blue, and stereotypical “boy/girl” things. Essentially this videos purpose was to make fun of the gender norms we place on children (who have had no say in this identity given to them) and how it would be considered ridiculous as adults. I have always admired BuzzFeed as a company because I believe they do a good job at creating quality content, while putting different (sometimes controversial) ideas into perspective. There is a market designed specifically “for women” or “for men” products on things like pens and tape that have no gender specific role what-so-ever. While, this video isn’t necessarily directing any change for companies or people, it is a (small) step in the right direction to start the topic of not assigning specific gender roles to children. I highly recommend checking out this video and others like it that BuzzFeed has to offer that can give perspective on important topics.
I also think it is ridiculous that we place gender roles on children. Adults follow the gender roles too when buying gifts for children. If you are shopping for a gift for a child, you should actually know what they like instead of assuming that they will like anything pink and princess if they are a girl or dinosaurs and blue if they are a boy. I also personally see how children are confused by gender stereotypes in my daily life. I am a girl with a shaved head so of course children are confused. No matter if I’m wearing a dress, heels, and makeup, I am consistently asked by children if I am a boy. I am not upset about it because I know that they taught to associate short hair with boys and long hair with girls. I just think that letting children play with whatever toys they want instead of making it a girl or boy thing could really open up children to new interests and hobbies. If a little girl loves the boy’s science kit more than the barbie doll, maybe she would discover something new about herself. Not to mention how shamed boys are for liking “girl” things. As a child you are forming your identity slowly, so I think allowing there to be no restraints could get rid of the stress.
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